AI response
Recommended AI: ChatGPT, Claude
Input: "1) where to hold the team dinner 2) whether to replace my laptop 3) whether to accept a job offer 4) what to name my blog"
Summary · 2 reversible doors (shut them fast) · 1 half-open door · 1 one-way door (go careful)
🔓 Team dinner venue — reversible door
Pick wrong and you just go elsewhere next time. Worst case, it's one meal.
- Speed: 5 minutes. Decide now.
- Default: book the fine-last-time or easy-to-reach spot. This is not a 3-day decision.
- Next action: confirm one of two candidates today and tell the team.
🔓 Blog name — reversible door (the one you're over-agonizing)
Early on you can change it anytime. This is really a 5-minute door, but a classic case of getting stuck hunting for the perfect name.
- Speed: pick a temporary one today and start. Swappable until ~10 posts.
- Next action: list 3 candidates, choose the easiest to say, today. Doesn't have to be final.
🔓🔒 Laptop replacement — half-open door (leans reversible)
Costs money but resellable used, so not fully one-way. Still, the sum is big enough not to decide on impulse.
- Speed: within this week.
- Questions: is the current pain 'actually blocking work' or just wanting something new? What spec do you need for a 2-year horizon?
- Next action: write your 3 gripes and first check if repair/upgrade solves them.
🔒 Accept the job offer — one-way door
Once you move, it's hard and costly to undo. Pour your decision energy here.
- Speed: don't rush — but no open-ended either; agree a reply deadline with them.
- Questions: is leaving 'running from' or 'moving toward' something? Which side has less regret from a 1-year vantage? Beyond salary, what's the total of what changes (growth, people, commute)?
- Next action: build an item-by-item compare table this week and have one trusted person review it.
Doors you can shut today: 2 (dinner, blog name). Shut them fast and you keep energy for the one door that truly needs care — the job move.





